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Why parents make a difference

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Parents are one of the biggest influences on a child’s attitude to alcohol.

You may feel you can’t make a difference, faced with the influence of their friends, the alcohol marketing messages they hear and the Irish ‘drinking’ culture, but children and teens need our protection when it comes to alcohol.

Not all young people will want to try alcohol, but many do. Our six steps to protecting your child from alcohol and drugs are

  • Build a close relationship
  • Set boundaries and stick to them
  • Know what they're doing
  • Don't give alcohol to children under 18
  • If you drink, set a good example by taking a low-risk approach
  • Talk openly and honestly about the risks of using alcohol and other drugs

For more advice to help you communicate with your child about alcohol and other drugs order your copy of our publication 'Alcohol and Drugs: A Parent's Guide' here and we'll send it out to you or download a copy today. 

Should I be worried?

You may see drinking and getting drunk as part of growing up or a rite of passage, but alcohol is more dangerous for young people than adults. Read more: What are the risks

The later your child starts drinking the better it is for their health and wellbeing in both the short and long term. 


For under 18s the safest choice is no alcohol


“Parents need to give teens a clear, unambiguous message that they disapprove of underage drinking.” 

Dr Bobby Smyth, Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist

Read more:

Order your copy of Alcohol and Drugs: A Parent's Guide

Download a copy of Alcohol and Drugs: A Parent's Guide

Why do teens drink?

Alcohol and the teenage brain.pdf (size 350.7 KB) - An article by Dr Helen McMonagle

Worried? Warning signs and ways to help

What to do if they come home drunk

What are the risks of teenage drinking?

Talking to children about alcohol

Alcohol and young people – what you and your child should know

Brian Wall. Sharing experiences and suggestions around alcohol and substance abuse. A guide for parents. 4th Edition, 2017.
(2013) NYCI. Support manual for dealing with substance use issues in an out of school setting. National Youth Council of Ireland, Dublin

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